20. Question time again

As you read this post, you might be wondering why I’m doing another Q&A session having already done one in my Question Time piece. Well, there are two main reasons; firstly, believe it not, I last did this in 2020 when the world was riddled with Covid and I was on an unintentional hiatus; secondly, those of you who have continued to follow my journey in the ENM lifestyle may have noticed that there have been some shifts in our approach to the ‘Hotwife’ dynamic which I’ll attempt to unpick in this post. Before I begin, I’d like to thank my followers who have sent in this questions for myself (SV) and husband (SS) to answer. Many of the questions overlapped or had similar themes so we have therefore attempted to combine similar questions where possible in order to give this post more coherency.

19.5 A Big Surpise

I shall never tire of ‘first times’ with Bulls. The excitement of the unknown is truly intoxicating and equally addictive. Each time, every nerve ending in my body seems to be supercharged, awaiting to be ignited. This particular night however was on another level. The shock of Ashley’s arrival from the US had now subsided and I now felt like a great explorer, surveying new territory. One who was ready to discover the unknown expanse of the man between my legs.

6. Past the point of no return

Two agonising weeks followed the intensely charged meet with my potential new Bull. I still refer to him as ‘potential’ due to the fact that no sexual act had occurred yet between us. Something that was soon to be rectified. The date for our private meeting had been arranged during my journey home from our first encounter, a sure indication of how successful it had been. In the days leading up to my overnight trip, the two of us shared increasingly suggestive texts about what was about to occur and it was clear that we were both equally excited. The day had finally arrived.

3. Two’s company, three’s even better!

Considering how shocked I was to learn of my husband’s desire to share me with other men, it was only a couple of weeks before I found myself preparing for my first sexual encounter with someone, who was not my husband.

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1. My Journey Begins

As I danced the night away with my university friends (circa 2007) to Scouting For Girls’ She’s So Lovely, the lyrics “She’s flirty, turned thirty and that’s the age a girl gets really dirty” blared out of the speakers. Never in my wildest dreams did I think, that fast forward a decade, those ‘eloquently’ put words would so aptly describe me; a married woman with two young children. My thirties have indeed ignited a passion that, up until now, laid dormant awaiting the right spark. That ‘spark,’ being my husband encouraging me to sleep with other men…

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